Thursday, November 4, 2010
An irresponsible motherIm left with 4 subjects of Olvl paper. Social Studies, Chinese, Art and Science. Exam will be over soon! Follow up, i will have to brush up my sales techniques:D Yesterday was my free day with no exam or anything impt, so met up with dear after his school at 12pm. We went to Art Friends at Bras Basah to buy some drawing papers for my art exam then walked to Suntec City. We had a nice day there,again. & after dinner in the evening, I decided to go to the arcade for few rounds of game. There's this machine which i always like to play where you have to spot the differences. And so my dear and me was sitting there playing . After 1 round of playing, there's 1 little girl who is about 3-4 years old stood beside my boyfriend .I thought she was jus watching us play out of pure curiosity,so we continue our game. Half way through the game ,that girl pushed away our stuffs which we placed on the game machine and started to CLIMB onto my boyfriend's lap ,it was all of a sudden. I asked my boyfriend to try to move that little girl away as its inappropriate to have a girl to sit on a stranger guy's lap, we don't know what will happen if her parents would do if they happen to see their daughter sitting onto a stranger's lap .They might accuse him of molest. So dear listened to my advice and try to move away that girl, and i was trying to look around for anyone who might be the parent's of the girl. And as my boyfriend was trying to move her away, she refused to leave and that girl attempted to bite his hand -.-" And making a scene by crying and grabbing chairs trying to hold herself to stay at the position .. Kinda helpless ,becos she seems like a stubborn little girl and we don't know her , we don't know who her parents is and she keep on clinging on us. I don't have the right to slap her for trying to bite my boyfriend and make her scrum off ,becos that's an offence ,that's bullying/abusing a minor ok .You just can't imagine how crazy she's at the scene even though she's just a little girl! So i approached a staff there ,hopefully she can help by looking for her parents or whatever she can do. The staff told me as she points a lady in her early 30s,"oh that girl. She's her daughter." Guess what her mother was doing? Playing some stupid fish catching games and don't even seems bothering that her daughter is gone? She just can't be bothered ,she was playing happily still. How can a mother of a child, especially when a child is only a toddler , be playing like a child,doing something she enjoys without looking after their own kids . I don't know what happen after that ,becos we left soon after. What if the the girl CLIMB onto another stranger's lap who is an old dirty lecher and especially prey on an innocent little girl like her? Or rapist who will bring her to somewhere else and rape her? Who would know what will happen ? And furthermore ,society now is complicated, a mother should protect their young especially a toddler like her or any kids who are below the age of 12 .They are not yet to be independent and that's the fact. There won't be any of use if they regret if bad things happen to their child. You have the intention to bring them to the world, they are your special gift ,please be responsible to care and love them, don't leave them alone .
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